How To Approach Women In Different Situations
Some guys think that they only place to approach women is in a bar or a club.
Well, let me tell you – nothing could be further from the truth!
Most of my personal success with women, and most of the success of my readers, happen in more “normal” places like coffee shops, bookstores, schools, parties, and even online.
The fact of the matter is – you can approach women ANYWHERE. And more importantly, you can do it successfully.
But guys tend to get confused about the more “normal” venues, like the supermarket, bookstore, or coffee shop. After all, these are places where guys can’t rely on the staple “Can I buy you a drink?” line most often seen in bars and clubs.
I think that most guys have a fear of approaching women because they don’t really know what to say, or where to take the conversation. I know that was a big one for me when I first wanted to learn about increasing my success with the ladies.
But here’s what I learned: YOU DON’T HAVE TO HAVE A “CONVERSATION” AT ALL WHEN YOU FIRST MEET A WOMAN!
Seriously. Lots of guys think they have to immediately sweep a woman off her feet the second they start talking to her. But that’s wrong.
Wrong, wrong, wrong!
ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS GET HER PHONE NUMBER!
Now, there’s a lot more to success with women than just getting her number. But at the bare minimum, all you really need to worry about when you first meet a woman is getting her contact information!
And you can do that really quickly – in a matter of minutes, if you know what to do and how to do it. I’ve had MANY friends of mine go out with me and watch me get 5 numbers in an evening from women, and only talk to them for a few minutes each to do it. And I’ll tell you what… it changes their perspectives forever.
Long conversations are not a prerequisite for getting a phone number or future date.
So the real question is – How do you get a girl to give you her number so quickly?
It’s actually easier than you think.
- Know exactly how you want the conversation to go.
- Know HOW to ask.
- Know WHEN to ask.
- Have a cell phone on you. (or a pen and paper)
The key here is to engage the woman quickly, in a fun and outgoing manner, and then before you break off to go on with your day, ask her this magic line:
“Hey, do you have email?”
No matter what she says, treat her answer as an agreement to give it to you, then take your cell phone out of your pocket and hand it to her to enter in her email. As she’s doing that, say, “and put your name and number there too…”
Boom. You got the digits! Easy as pie, right?
The key is that you have to act LIKE THIS IS THE MOST NATURAL THING IN THE WORLD.
I’ve personally gotten COUNTLESS of emails and phone numbers (from women I’ve just met) with this technique.
The key is to MENTALLY REHEARSE how you will handle yourself so you know exactly what to do when the time comes. It all has to flow and seem natural.
After trying this simple techniques a few times, you’ll easily be an expert at meeting women in any situation.
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